UNDERSTANDING NEGATIVE FRIENDS
- wharp75
- Mar 26, 2014
- 3 min read
Have you ever had friends and family who were negative and you were overwhelmed by being around them? Are you experiencing fear of making new friends? Do you lack the courage to break free of the old habits that you know are holding you back? Do you feel stuck in a world that seems so negative and do not possess the knowledge to break free? Well, I am going to give you some very applicable suggestions if you are trying to make a big change in your life. Understanding negative friends can seem overwhelming but understanding WHY they are negative will help you make the necessary changes in order for your life to change. Watch this short video to help understand WHY they are negative.
It’s All About Your Position in THEIR Mind
One of the biggest breakthroughs that you may experience is understanding negative friends and how it applies differently to everyone. The level of negativity you will face is directly tied to HOW your friends see you.You see, you could be like those individuals who have always had your family and friends tell you that you were going to be successful. So guess what? You probably rarely get negativity from your family and friends. However, you might be one of those individuals that did not always have business and success on their mind, and who face almost violent opposition from your warm market. Inside the below video I share why that is and what you can do about it. There is ONE thing that you SHOULD do that hardly anyone does, unless they have been trained.
People that do not celebrate your success or your growth are not really your friends. They are comfortable with the small story or version of you not the real you. The issue is you need to create vacuums in your life. You need to create places that need to be filled. So when you begrudgingly hang around people that do not celebrate you or are negative those who do not invite you to the parties. You really do not have a vacuum. You really need to drop the negative people and start attracting the positive ones. I have seen people decide that they are going to move from a state which is extreme in order to get away from the negativity. If you get to the place that you say “at least I have friends”. “I know that they are negative but I have friends”. This attitude is a problem because it fosters the idea that you have to live a negative life. Truthfully you need to get rid of the toxicity from your life in order to attract positive new and better people to you. Ridding yourself of the negative will open up doors for positive to come in.How many of you need to hear this? Feel free to share and comment below if it helped you with why your negative friends are the way they are. You can have Purpose Directed Success today!
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